No offense taken :)
No but, Tim is all mine, not adopted. There was a time when I was 13-15 I had a girlfriend (this was BEFORE I figured out that I was gay) and like all other teenage boys I was like ”Oh, awesome SEX!” and long story short, we had sex and two months later I came out to her and she was cool with it, we split and I moved while she stayed in Cork.
During five years I met Joe and a half year before me and Joe decided that we were going to move to Sweden I got a call from her and she wanted to meet me, I went over to her place and she told me that she didn’t have much time left and that’s when the dropped the bomb - I was a dad. She had hid it from me and never told me until the very end.
She past away and I took Tim in last year.
I do miss her so much tbh but yeah life’s a bitch ..